Saturday 26 January 2013

3 Powerful Tips For Women Who Want To Find That Special Someone

There’s no point in going out and trying to meet someone when you aren’t really sure at all what you want in a relationship.

It can be hard to get yourself ready to find love again and if you feel like you don’t really know what to do to find that special someone that you’d want to have in your life, it can actually end up being kind of overwhelming at times. You know that you want to find love, you just don’t really know what you should do to go about it. Hopefully I can give you some direction in this article because everyone should eventually find that love that they are seeking.
Here are 3 tips that should help you find that special someone:
1. Really get to know yourself and what you want in a relationship.
There’s no point in going out and trying to meet someone when you aren’t really sure at all what you want in a relationship. You don’t have to know everything in regards to what you want, but you should at least have some idea of what the ideal partner would be like as well as what the ideal relationship would feel like. It’s much better to get to know yourself and what you want so that you don’t end up wasting time with someone who isn’t going to be right for you in the long term.
2. You can’t expect someone to love you if you don’t love yourself.
I think that everyone hears this advice at least a few times in their life, but not everyone really takes it to heart. It’s true, though. If you can’t find good reasons to love yourself, it is going to be hard to find someone to love you. And when you don’t truly love yourself, you’ll also usually find that it is too easy to end up with someone who is wrong for you and stay with that person even if the situation just isn’t right.
3. Love usually doesn’t just fall into your lap, you have to go out and find it.
Watch enough movies and you might get the idea that it really does just fall into your lap, as the woman who is desperate to find someone usually just happens to meet the right guy and eventually fall in love with that guy. However, if you are really serious about finding that special someone in the real world, you have to go out and find it. There is a reason why they make it look that way in the movies, it’s because it’s the way that people wish it was, not the way that is usually is.

Fulani Leader Arrested With 5 Human Skulls & Ammunition In Plateau State, Nigeria

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Security Operatives have arrested a Fulani leader in Mangu local government area of Plateau state, North Central Nigeria in the early hours of Friday with five human skulls hidden in the ceiling of his apartment while arms and ammunition were also recovered from the premises.
The combined team of police and military personnel carried out the raid following a tipoff from some residents on the suspicious movement of the Fulani leader known as Ardo whose activities have been a concern to the community.
According to the Mangu Local Government Caretaker Committee Chairman, Ifa Shikbena, the arrest was effected by security operatives where the human skulls and firearms were discovered.
Confirming the incident, Special Task Force Spokesman, Captain Salisu Mustapha explained that investigations are ongoing to ascertain the kind of firearms recovered from the suspect and the number of arrests as well as the human skulls found in his possession.
The Plateau state government noted with concern the resurgence of violent attacks in some parts of the state in view of the recent and steady peace been enjoyed for some time.
In a statement issued by the Commissioner for Information and Communications, Abraham Yiljap, the recent unprovoked attacks have resulted in the loss of many lives causing pains among the people.
He pointed out that the “ latest attacks in some parts of Jos South, Barkin Ladi and Wase local government areas appeared deliberately aimed at plunging the state into larger and perpetual theatre of conflict adding that the state government has in consultation with security agencies adopted various measures to stop any spread of violence”.
The statement further “directed local government management committee chairmen of the affected areas to adopt specific pro-active measures to douse tension and maintain the peace of the areas and called on the people of plateau state to remain calm but vigilant, avoid any form of panic, and cooperate with security agencies in building up on the level of peace already attained”.

ANCOP Warns Nollywood On Parley With FG Over Centenary Celebration


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The Association of Nollywood Core Producers (ANCOP), has warned stakeholders in Nollywood to be careful of the bait being dangled before them by the federal government through its secretary, Anyim Pius Anyim, seeking the industry’s support for Nigeria’s centenary celebration holding in 2014.
In a press statement signed by ANCOP’s president, Comrade Alex Eyengho, the movie producers’ body warned that the era of reducing A-list movie stars to mere ball boys, clappers, dancers, servers of food and drinks to the amusement of the politicians and their special guests are over.
According to Eyengho, “let me make it clear that neither ANCOP nor I as the President are against this interactive session with Nollywood. I am aware that the SFG held similar sessions with other sectors.
“If and when the government wants to meet with Nigerian journalists, it goes straight through the Nigerian Union of Journalists (NUJ), for Lawyers it’s the Nigerian Bar Association (NBA), for Accountants it is mainly ICAN, for Doctors it is NMA, for Advertisers it is APCON. Government even knows how to centrally reach transporters, okada riders, market women/men etc.
“The session Senator Anyim had was not with Nollywood but with Kanayo O. Kanayo and with those he decides to inform, handpick and invite.
“Enough of this laughable trend of reaching Nollywood through those who are close to the corridors of power at a particular point in time. Nollywood is a formal and serious industry replete with eggheads. We must be treated as such.”
He asked what Nollywood, which clocked 20 last year, has gained from Nigeria, which clocks 100 next year. “Where is the proposed Motion Picture Practitioners Council of Nigeria (MOPPCON) that would have been our own equivalent of NBA, NUJ, NMA, APCON, ICAN, NSE etc?” Eyengho asked.
On Wednesday, January 23, Anyim has a session with Kanayo O Kanayo and some others in Lagos aimed at mobilising Nollywood to drum support for the government in celebrating Nigeria’s centenary.
During the election of President Jonathan in the last general election in 2011, some Nollywood stars were used in campaigning for the President. Then, the entertainment industry was promised an intervention fund of $200million, which some industry stakeholders have denied accessing.
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